thinking its time for you to look online for love too. There are a bunch of lessons I eventually took away from those experiences that I'll share with you today. There is no incentive money to the site to keep you there, so that people who contact you are doing it because they want to meet you, not to keep you on the site. But, if this is about a new start for you, then its a great opportunity for you to think about whats really important in a partner. I was going to write about something else today - I have a couple of big-concept posts I've been meaning to write up and get around to - but, heck, the last post I put up was a big-concept post so I figured let's have. I mean, it was long.